Not at all. This is not about belief — it’s about direct experience. You don’t need to be religious, spiritual, or anything in particular. What matters is your willingness to be honest with yourself, be respectful and keep it real. Dogma has no place here. Authentic inquiry does. We connect at the heart.

They are all streams flowing to the same ocean. The ancient Vedas speak of cosmic order and self-realization. True Tantra (not the Western distortion) is about direct experience of the divine through the body. The Christ Way teaches surrender, love, and resurrection. I call it “the shortcut.” And beneath all of these is the Primordial – the nameless vital source before any tradition gave it a name. I draw from all of these. Narrow is the way, but not narrow minded.

Couples sessions are non-invasive and I am very attentive to the needs of both persons. I always establish a strong connection with the lady partner first and foremost. She will feel very validated and free to be more empowered in her own tantric, shamanic reality. This is what makes for a great couples session. Please rest assure that you will both feel safe and comfortable. Nudity and any body contact will be appropriate to the well-being of each of us.

A more “advanced” session does not necessarily mean more sexual energies, as many new people think. More advanced means more in touch on all levels. Amazing sex in your life can be a great side effect. I will be open to whatever counseling, purging, or energetic release is needed… in whatever sacred form it may want to show itself. I understand the sexual end of it, as well.

Couples sessions can vary. At one point, one partner may lay on a comfortable futon and the other partner and I may sit on either side. I follow my inner guidance to help guide and coach where needed as we explore and observe energies. Then, the partners may switch positions. I can also work with each of you separately, in private, if desired. Or, the three of us can just wing it in co-creative un-planned free style. Just be in touch with your goals and desires, and we can go from there. It’s bound to be a lot of fun and informative. Tantra can definitely help keep the magic in a relationship for a very long time.

“Deva-ji- Tom and I are expanding into Divine Love together, without any sex even needed! It’s quite extraordinary and is the direct application of everything you and I have been discussing for months. I am on Bliss Cloud 9. Seriously. We are so intimate and clear and expanded together it’s blowing our minds and our socks off. It’s all NOW. Bliss NOW. Peace NOW.”

— Kat and Tom, now married – Chile

Whether your interest is sensory, instructional, sublime or gently eccentric, you can expect a richly nourishing sharing with me. Full attention will be given to the needs of your body, mind, and spirit, and all of my self will be at your service. You can expect exquisite light to medium touch and teachings, and learn to offer more of the same to those you love. Loose, comfy clothes can remain on, or you can be nude and have draped soft fabrics over you, or whatever amount of clothes or no clothes feels for us to be mutually aligned. Over the years, I found that a high degree of tactile sensuality easily could highjack the person from reaching the ultimate tantric goal. I am not closed to the possibility of full body nude touch, but during pandemic times, I learned to be more “wise” around super close touch. Best is always a phone-call first, so we can check compatibility on that.

For the men, there is no presumed goal of a “happy-ending” in my sessions… but there certainly is the goal of a “truly inspired ending”. I can facilitate someone to have multiple waves of orgasmic, elevated states that are quite different and more liberating than most things known, or discussed, in modern times. Tantra is a vast and unknown reality. Also, rest assure, there are many ways to fully relax tired muscles and achy areas without using deep tissue sports massage and messy scented oils. A more subtle, exotic approach can be far more effective and long lasting. This is a very ancient art that moves through me very naturally, literally called “shaktipat”. Try something brand new that can actually spark major change and even cosmic states of kundalini, when the fates are aligned.

Persons of any age are welcome to see me for guidance and deep experience. I am not all that young anymore, and I’m happy to send anyone a “plain Jane photo”, as certain photos on this website are somewhat glamour shots. It shouldn’t really matter, as it’s really the energy and purity that make the difference. I just feel to be transparent on this. I have had amazing sessions with certain sincere men even as young as 19 – those who have some experience with yoga or other self-help modalities. Any age is fine with me. I much enjoy sessions with women too, along with mixed genders, swingers and celibates… I only care about respect and love.

A whole lot can happen in a private telephone, zoom, or skype session. Right from home, get support on any array of topics as it relates to love, sex, marriage problems, health issues, and actually most any topic, as I am also a muse and life coach on other matters besides tantra and intimacy. Want to talk about the global situation? Fine with me. Want to cry or yell into a pillow because your partner left? Fine with me. Or just want to share your latest victory and contemplate what’s next in your life? Perhaps get my intuitive hit on that? Wake up your own intuition? As for the sensual end of tantra, persons on the phone with me have even learned how to have solo multi-orgasmic states and have felt safe to share very private things with me. I am very kind and fully confidential.

For singles, I often prefer telephone… partly because we don’t have to stare at a computer. I prefer usually that we both relax on a bed or coach, clothes on or not (who cares, no one is looking) and just go for the deep dive minus the visuals. I do not do nudity on any cyber device… but on a phone, audio only, the sky’s the limit on what can transpire. We can get much more relaxed and open than if we were sitting there, fully clothed, and staring at a visual desktop screen. Friends! Consider just nice headphones and audio sessions only!

However, couples sessions DO often work better via a visual Skype or Zoom. It’s a very different dynamic, with couples.

Nothing is set in stone. Whatever modality we mutually agree upon, I am dedicated to helping persons “connect all the dots” …helping to move trapped energies completely through the body and “whatever works.” Feel free to call me for a free initial 15 min chat.

Any sensuality in our sessions complements rather than replaces conventional sexual interaction. This is a sublime, esoteric, erogenous experience you probably have not experienced and are not likely to encounter elsewhere. Getting an erection is common for male clients (with women it’s less obvious). It’s perfectly natural and a matter for pride; it’s never a reason for embarrassment or shame. It’s proof you’re alive. Although it may be a natural response, it’s not my ultimate focus during a Tantric bodywork session. I have countless ways to master and teach mastery of these energies.

To avoid misunderstandings, including legality, I place emphasis on the fact that I am offering Tantric teachings and being paid for time and educational purposes. To be clear, I am not an escort where s-e-x takes place, often defined as: orifices entered or fluids exchanged. On the other hand, I am aware that touch can arouse, and that life energy is strongly connected to sexual energies. During resting time, the Chi-energy is bounded in the sex-chakra (second chakra). Tantric touch stimulates this energy, bundles it and distributes it throughout the body. I invite you to try something completely new.

I am 100% dedicated to raising energies to a high spiritual level. You will not feel guilty or that you acted against your conscience. It takes practice and although it’s work, it’s VERY enjoyable work! It’s highly liberating and can prove to be very helpful in your daily life. In very Advanced Tantra, you realize everything makes love with everything everywhere. It’s all in the teachings and the subtle energy currents that flow through our chakras. These channels all need to be opened through one’s heart to experience even a drop of this. I can guide you through various kinds of bodywork and energy work. This could incorporate some sensual energy that gets directed to higher levels… You will get it when you start a session with me. It’s a dance of sorts. Perhaps consider that this hints at ancient Hawaiian ageless wisdom, not just that of ancient eastern Indian wisdom. Both regions were once a part of a larger continent – Lemuria. Mahalo for being open!

Erections come and go in life, just like everything else. When “all the dots connect,” an erection may arise out of nowhere. Then again, an erection can also go away, out of nowhere, due to being fully aligned. There are countless reasons, conditions and states of being. Variable states are wonderful valley/peak experiences when one’s dual mind is not obstructing flow. In Tantra, supreme detachment from whether you are erect or not is paramount. I have known men that have no erection, yet still feel so high that they could swear they were making love. I realise that is hard for most men to believe. I’ve been known to catalyze healing for men who thought they were “dysfunctional” and I’m adept at catalyzing men to have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasmic states known sometimes as the awakening of kundalini.

With a small amount of Tantric practice, such occurrences are brought under control. I am experienced with this and can teach you how to have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasmic states, while prolonging ejaculation pretty much “forever,” meaning even many years, no matter how much some men may think this cannot be done… I have seen it with men and women both, where unique ‘dry orgasms’ (sometimes called kriyas in India) can arise from a high subtle origin. This is a vast subject that I address on many levels, including very esoteric levels. The sky is the limit in the exploration of senses when non-different from higher self. Within one hour, a man can gain the master keys to most PE (premature ejaculation) occurrences.

You may be quite surprised. That is the art and skill of a quality practitioner — to guide you into states of deep satisfaction that transcend the conventional idea of “release.” The body has far more capacity for bliss than most people realize, and true Tantra unlocks exactly that.

Men will get much more detail under the Singles Sessions description above.